Changing Times: Does The Kenyan Dream Still Hold True?

Scrolling through social media recently, I stumbled upon a thought-provoking question: “What is the Kenyan version of the American Dream?” The prompt sparked a flurry of responses, each revealing a unique dream and definition of success.

Deep down, we all harbor aspirations that fuel our daily grind. It might be owning a swanky maisonette in a secure estate like Herencia, a beachfront haven along Diani’s pristine shores, or a sprawling ranch in Nanyuki. Regardless of your personal vision, hold onto that dream – it’s what keeps you striving.

However, this social media query got me pondering: Is there a quintessential Kenyan dream? And if so, does it still resonate in today’s world? Glancing through the diverse responses, a common thread emerged.

For many, the Kenyan dream revolves around a secure, high-paying corporate job, a stunning home, a reliable car, and a cherished family. This formula for success has been prevalent worldwide since the 90s. But is it still relevant in our rapidly changing landscape? I believe significant transformations have occurred, and here’s why:

Employment

The 1990s and 2000s were dominated by a singular vision of success: excel in school, ace exams, and land a coveted corporate job in a blue-chip company. Stable professions like teaching and medicine were equally prized. This rigid approach, however, stifled creativity and led many to pursue careers devoid of passion, solely for financial security. Perhaps this explains the current state of customer service in Kenya, where a lack of genuine enthusiasm might be rooted in career dissatisfaction.

Thankfully, a wave of change is upon us. Gone are the days when dreams of becoming a musician, actor, or entrepreneur were met with disapproval from parents. The “play-it-safe” mentality of the baby boomer generation, with its aversion to risk, prioritized stability above all else. This played a role in the decline of job creation in private enterprises, contributing to the current youth unemployment rate of 35%.

However, as the baby boomers reach retirement age, a new mindset is emerging. Young Kenyans are boldly embracing entrepreneurship, reshaping the Kenyan Dream as we know it. This shift towards passion and purpose is a welcome development, paving the way for a more vibrant and dynamic future.

Homeownership

Traditionally, the Kenyan Dream of homeownership centered solely on stability and security – having a roof over your head, no matter where it was located. The initial purchase was likely driven by the basic need for shelter and pride of ownership. However, over time, people realized the mismatch between their home and their desired lifestyle. Local real estate agents might recognize this in the rise of home resales, often fueled by buyer’s remorse. 

Today, while the desire for homeownership remains strong, Kenyans are looking beyond the physical structure.  The focus has shifted towards a holistic lifestyle.  This means prioritizing homes closer to work and schools, or seeking out communities with amenities like playgrounds and recreational areas that enhance daily life.

This doesn’t diminish the traditional dream entirely. The pride and security of owning a home is still a powerful motivator. But the new Kenyan Dream acknowledges the role of lifestyle in this journey. It’s not just about building houses; it’s about building fulfilling lives.  Homes should not only be shelters but reflections of the lives lived within them, filled with purpose, and aligned with personal aspirations.

Family

The Kenyan dream of a sprawling urban house filled with children is facing a stark reality check. In an era of economic uncertainty and a rapidly changing world, the desire for large families is waning. Many couples are choosing smaller families or opting out of parenthood altogether. From childcare and education to healthcare and extracurricular activities, the financial burden can be immense. In a climate of stagnant wages and rising costs, many couples simply feel they can’t afford a large family.

Furthermore, contemporary living presents different challenges. The emphasis on career advancement, coupled with the high cost of housing, often pushes parenthood later in life, when biological limitations and competing priorities come into play. Additionally, the societal shift towards a more individualistic lifestyle, with a focus on personal fulfillment and experiences, can make the prospect of raising a large family seem less appealing.

This isn’t to say the desire for children has vanished entirely. However, the definition of an “ideal” family size is undergoing a transformation. Smaller families, with one or two children, are becoming increasingly common. However, there’s also a positive side to this shift. Smaller families can lead to more focused parental attention on each child, potentially fostering better educational and emotional outcomes. Additionally, a decline in birth rates can ease pressure on natural resources and the environment.

Final Thoughts

The Kenyan dream, once a blueprint of stability and societal markers like a corporate job and a McMansion, is undergoing a metamorphosis. Kenyans are prioritizing purpose and lifestyle fulfillment over chasing a one-size-fits-all ideal. We’re witnessing a surge in entrepreneurial ventures driven by passion, not just paychecks. The focus on homeownership is shifting towards acquiring a space that complements a desired lifestyle, not just providing basic shelter. Even the concept of family is adapting, with smaller, more manageable units becoming prevalent.

This isn’t a rejection of the traditional dream, but rather an expansion of its definition. Kenyans still crave security, comfort, and a loving family, but they’re seeking these on their own terms. The new Kenyan dream empowers individuals to build lives, not just houses – lives that resonate with their aspirations and values. It’s a dream that embraces the dynamic nature of the world, one where purpose and personal fulfillment reign supreme.

Authors Note: The views expressed herein belong to the author and do not necessarily reflect those of the developer.